When it comes to making love, men and woman both have very different wants, needs and desires. Communicate with your spouse and see if your skipping steps that they need in order to reach a level of stimulation.
Men
According to Nature.com, men generally respond to visual sexual stimuli, such as attractive, nude or erotic pictures, or erotic films.
Fore-play for men is a ticket into paradise. Men thrive on the unexpected and love to be visually stimulated. Some factors to take in.
Confidence: Confidence is sexy! Men don't worry as much as women do when it comes to sex. Body type does not play a factor. Lingerie is a plus but does not limit their desire for you. It's all about your confidence. What you do with it, and how you show it off.
Dance: You don't need to be a professional dancer to please your man. Simple strip tease, lap dance or even caressing areas of the body slowly and meaningful.
Video: Visual stimulation is a huge factor to men. Record yourself, send a pic or video to arouse your spouse and await for their reaction. You wont be disappointed!
Women
According to ABCnews.com About 75 percent of all women never reach orgasm from intercourse alone. This is without the extra help of sex toys, hands or tongue. And 10 to 15 percent never climax under any circumstances.
Utilizing fore-play can be beneficial and stimulating for both givers and receivers. Most women need more then just intercourse to get them to the promise land. Tapping into a woman's mind causes her to form an emotional connection which then will stimulate areas of the body that sex along can not accomplish. Be mindful to take a few things into consideration.
Timing- Being spontaneous can have its benefits. It can cause a rush of excitement eliminating any intimidation or unrealistic expectations. Planning can cause for a better outcome. Setting the tone helps accomplish the goal.
Props- Sex accessories may not be for everyone. It's definitely a conversation you want to have before entering these into your bedroom. However, be mindful of your partner's wants and needs before completely dismissing them. Search the web, try things out before coming to a conclusion.
Love language: Understanding your partner's love language is vital in the marriage bedroom. Does your partner respond to words of affirmation? Whispers of sweet and sexy talk in the ear may cause stimulation. Does your partner respond to touch? You may want to give a body massage before entering into the promise land. Does your partner like gifts? Surprise him or her with a gift you both can enjoy. Or does your spouse like acts of service? Take control, set the atmosphere and allow them to enjoy the show.
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